Hello beautiful! I'm Spenser and I'm so glad you found me.
I'm a Certified Life Coach from the Martha Beck Institute. I help women all the world, get pregnant. I work with clients who are sick of waiting to have the life they yearn for. They're feeling alone and overwhelmed with why they're not pregnant yet - even after everything they've done.
I know that the pressure you're feeling to get pregnant is very real. Which is why I love helping people make high-impact mental, spiritual and physical changes - that totally transform your fertility from the inside out.
More about spenser
Since the very first day I played with my very first cabbage patch doll, I knew that I couldn't wait to have a baby of my own. I spent my childhood playing house with my little brother (poor guy) and spent a lot of time imagining the day I'd be a real life mom.
If you ask my parents, they'd tell you that I couldn't wait to grow up. I was always waiting for the next best thing and most of my life was spent chasing something bigger and better. Whether I was waiting for my future husband, earning tons of cash, buying a house or waiting for the day I could have my own baby...
The now was never enough.
And I always thought that when I finally had these things, THEN I could relieve all that pressure to do/have/be more. I'd be happy. And present. And fulfilled. And more myself.
But I can say with full confidence that this was a never the case.
I was running on auto-pilot. And even though most things came easy to me (and I was pretty good at whatever I did), I was bored and un-fullfilled. Because I created a life I thought I "should" have. Not what I, Spenser, really yearned for. I was living on the surface of life.
I was very focused on what my life looked like on the outside - not how I felt on the inside. Looking back now, it's like my life revolved around the tip of the iceberg, while my heart was craving the depth and mystery of what was beneath the surface.
So when I embarked on my fertility journey and it didn't happen as quickly as I would have liked, I knew things were about to change. Because I had never experienced not being able to create something in the timing that I wanted it.
Shit was about to get real. Because having a baby is what I wanted the most. And I would do everything in my power to create it.
In my search to find answers as to why this was happening to me and what I could do to get pregnant, I stumbled onto the website of a Fertility Coach (I still don't know how I found her website...). Through our work together and to my surprise, we explored the unseen depth and the mystery of the iceberg. She challenged me to slow down, get curious and showed me how to take baby steps to live a quality life, tailored to me. A life I could be totally present and happy with - now. Regardless of circumstance.
Coaching changed my life. It's the best damn thing that has ever happened to me. And as much as I'd like to say that coaching helped me to become the women/wife/mom I've always wanted to be, coaching is a process of "unbecoming". Letting go of who you you think "should" be and what you thought was "right", so that you can have the freedom to live your own unique life. This freedom is what I was chasing - even when I was a little girl.
As coaching continued to rock my world, I knew I had to become one myself. To show you how to stop waiting and start living your fullest creative potential - now.
You don't have to wait to have what you want. I'm living proof.
The irony of this work is that when you accept the gift of your fertility journey, your baby is never far behind as this presence and love for life is exactly what your little one wants to come in to. Wouldn't you?
A happy, fulfilling, diaper-filled life is within reach. I promise you. I know this because I've coached women all around the world into living this exact dream.
Now it's your turn mama bear.
Certified Life Coach
I received my Life Coach certification from Dr. Martha Beck's program. Martha has earned two Harvard degrees and is a best selling author, Oprah's go-to Life Coach, and columnist for O Magazine. Her training contains the perfect mix of science, spirituality, education and love. It has been an honour to take part in the life changing process of becoming a Life Coach, as it is most important to truly live it to give it!