What's working?

I gotta say...

You amaze me.

If you’re reading this, you’re a true mama-bear at heart. Someone who would do anything for her baby, before it’s even here.

Like com’on. Imma speak for your future baby right now and say – your baby hit the mama JACKPOT! 

All the lifestyle changes you’ve made. The never-give-up determination you have. The ca-raaaazy things you’ve done to finally create this baby. The undying faith and intuition that it will happen…

Because of that - you are without a freaking doubt, a mom today.

However, despite all you have done and all you’ve become (or un-become), it’s easy to focus on what’s not working.

Whether it be about creating a baby, a biz or a happy marriage, we habitually find ourselves asking, “What’s not working?”

Because when you find out what’s wrong, then you can fix it.

And I agree with that to a certain extent.

Part of my job as a Life Coach is to find out what beliefs you have that are blocking your flow. And I show you how to let them go. In a nut shell, my job is to help you find the weed, pull it the fuck out and watch that beautiful garden grow.

fertility garden

But when you consistently focus on what’s wrong, you spend all your time on the look out for more weeds – in fear. Instead of admiring and living in that gorgeous garden you worked so diligently to create.  

Know this: 

Your garden includes more than a baby.

It includes the new found love you have for yourself. The new relationship you have with your body and knowing how to fuel it (God knows you’ve done your fertility foods research…). The new connection you have with a higher power. And it includes the peace you’ve made with your past, the faith you have in your future and the love you share when you live in the now.  

Can you see it? Can you see how insanely beautiful, bright and fertile your garden is?

*This* is what’s working. And that’s a whole helluva lot.

Love,

Xo Spenser

“Where focus goes, energy flows.” – Tony Robbins