It’s finally YOUR time to take the mystery out of fertility and master the mind-body approach to getting pregnant— at your own pace.
You’re probably telling yourself every damn day…
✨——— “What’s wrong with me?”
“I’ve been able to create so many amazing things in my life. A great relationship and a solid career. But making a baby is the ONE thing I haven’t been able to make happen.”
Up until this point, your hard work has gotten you far in life. So why isn’t this same amount of productivity, work ethic, and crossed-out to-do lists working in the area that you want it to work the MOST?
✨——— “It’s all my fault.”
“I’ve spent $1000’s on special diets and OPK’s, and $10,000+ on IUI’s and IVF’s and still not pregnant. What gives??!!”
You feel embarrassed at how much you’ve spent to get pregnant, with no ROI. You don’t regret doing it but hoped that by THIS point, all of the sacrifices that you’ve made and the hope that you had would have amounted to something by now.
✨——— “I’m feeling SO MUCH pressure.”
“I want to let go and trust the process, but seriously…HOW?”
You see all these success stories of couples who “stop trying” and miraculously get pregnant, but how is this even possible? Where would you even start? What does this even fucking feel like?
And through it all—you can’t help but feel solely responsible that it hasn’t happened yet.
LIKE IT’S ALL YOUR FAULT, AND THAT YOU MUST NOT BE DOING ENOUGH.
YOU are not the problem, mama-bear.
The problem is the way you’ve been conditioned to THINK.
You’ve been trying to do everything “right” according to the fertility industry. You’re trying to get your hormones, basal body temperature, and diet as close to perfect as humanly possible – in hopes that THIS is what will finally create those 2 pink lines.
What’s the result of this kind of thinking?
It makes you believe and truly feel like you and your body are not enough now. And that the only thing that will prove that you’ve done enough and are worthy of this baby, is if you get pregnant.
And if this attempt at as-close-to-perfect-as-possible is what our culture and the fertility industry has convinced you is the solution, then you:
1. Put your life on hold and don’t enjoy it now, because you believe the solution lies in your future.
2. Feel more desperate and attached to getting pregnant.
3. Blame yourself and your body.
This thinking creates a disconnect between your mind and body, even though you think you’re being productive.
Remember, this is not your fault. This is just the way that women have been conditioned to think.
You are not broken. You are not defective.
You’ve done nothing wrong.
Can you take a moment to let that sink in?
THE CRAZIEST THING IS THAT YOU CAN’T EVEN TELL THAT THIS IS HAPPENING BEHIND THE SCENES.
Because your fertility story - how long you’ve been trying, your age and what doctors have told you - has completely consumed your mind and your identity.
I spent YEARS stuck in this vicious TTC cycle.
It felt like a trigger was waiting for me around every corner to remind me about my inability to conceive.
FEELING TRIGGERED WHEN:
➡️ Walking into the grocery store to pick up bananas and noticing 3 pregnant bellies to remind me about how easy it is for other women and not for me.
➡️ Sitting through another pregnancy announcement from my SIL, who has officially lapped me with baby #2 on her first month trying.
➡️ My period arriving and my heart dropping into my stomach because now, I gotta break the news to my partner, again.
It was exhausting. There came a point when I was mentally and physically DONE with trying to control everything and DONE with feeling the pressure to make it happen.
I had created and repeated a story to myself over and over again until it was almost impossible for my mind and my body to believe that it could happen.
It was at that exact moment that I realized that the reason I was suffering so hard wasn’t because of the circumstance of “not being able to get pregnant.”
But because I was waiting for the arrival of my baby to prove and validate that I was finally enough—instead of believing it to be true, now.
When I recognized that my beliefs were powerful enough to make me feel powerless—I realized that I could also use them to take my power BACK and gain a healthy sense of control over the journey (and my life).
The key to ending this identity of “infertile” and actually creating change instead of trying to “force” or “prove” it — was strengthening my mind-body connection by learning how to change my thoughts and feel worthy of a beautiful life NOW…
Not just when I get pregnant.
Just IMAGINE what it will feel like…
…being so up in your beautiful life that you actually forget what day of your cycle it is.
You freely make love with your partner, you drink a fresh margarita without guilt for the first time in YEARS, and your connection to the Universe makes you feel like you can finally let go and trust the process.
Even though you’re not pregnant and still very much want to have a baby, you’ve reached a state in which you finally feel worthy to be happy now.
You’re so distracted by the pleasure-filled and purposeful life that you’ve created, that it takes you a few days to realize that your periods late.
So you grab an old pregnancy test in the back of the closet and wait a couple of minutes to see it light up like a Christmas tree
This is exactly what happened to me.
Years trying? 8.
IVF? Been there.
Miscarriage? Been there too.
Throughout my fertility journey, I became a Certified Life Coach to show you EXACTLY how your mind can support your body to get pregnant.
I’ve helped 100’s of women get pregnant and/or live incredible lives ever since.
Today, I know exactly what it takes to get your mind and body on board so that you can get your baby on board.
Sounds too good to be true?
Hang tight. I’m about to show you exactly how it works…
But first, check out what women are saying about my unique mind-body process:
“You helped me realize that I was subconsciously self-sabotaging my chances every month.”
Keep up the wonderful things you are doing for women all over the world. I just found out I’m pregnant!
— Melissa M.
“Before joining FMBM I was feeling extremely isolated on our fertility journey. I had experienced several consecutive losses with no real answers. I decided to join to have a sense of community during such an isolating time. It was the best decision I had made along our fertility journey at that point. I feel the biggest transformation for me was allowing myself to feel all the feelings and Spenser and this community helped validate them. Instead of just jumping into “what’s next” I actually sat in the grief and worked through really tough moments while utilizing the tools Spenser provided during the program. Talking questions out with Spenser during calls I had so many “light bulb” moments and I truly can’t thank her enough.
Don’t hesitate, jump right in,
I promise it’s worth it. The tools will help you with so many scenarios throughout life.
You won’t be the same person leaving the program as you were when you walked in. I promise you will be a better version of yourself!”
— Amy F.
Right now, you believe that restricting your diet, your lifestyle and trying to get things as close to perfect as possible, will finally make you worthy of your baby.
I’m here to tell you:
This is absolutely NOT the case, and this limiting belief is the biggest roadblock stopping you from getting pregnant and having a happy, healthy baby.
There is a way to feel confident, increase your fertility, and become pregnant, without losing yourself and getting lost in the impossible standards of perfection.
It is an empowering, life-altering experience…meaning the path to creation does not involve limiting, shrinking, or diminishing.
It begins by EXPANDING using my fail-proof 3-Part Fertility Framework.
This simple yet powerful mind-body process is designed to meet you exactly where you are—no matter what you’ve been through—and can be applied gently and effectively in your daily life.
When you join Fertility Mind-Body Mastery, you’ll receive immediate access to self-paced trainings that will guide you step by step through this framework, so you can begin creating real shifts right away.
I KNOW YOUR HANDS ARE TIRED OF HOLDING ONTO THIS GOAL WITH EVERY OUNCE OF STRENGTH YOU HAVE.
What would it feel like if you could loosen your grip around NEEDING to get pregnant?
And transform that need into a happy, healthy desire?
If this is exactly what your heart is craving right now, then I’d like to introduce to a proven and truly liberating approach to creating your baby…
Shift your entire fertility journey inside of…
Your holistic sanctuary to master your mind and finally make your miracle.
Fertility Mindset Mastery is a program to help you gain a healthy sense of control over your mind, have confidence in your body, and open your heart up to getting pregnant.
This is the only place to get complete access to my unique mind-body process to getting pregnant.
Watch the stories of real TTC women on how they went from: Less grind to more glow. Less control to more trust.
And how this led to…
“What you were doing was scraping away all those layers of conditioning I didn’t even know I was carrying. Every session helped me shed another ‘should’ or expectation. It’s like you helped me remember who I truly am underneath it all.”
-Daisy, FMBM client
“This wasn’t just an investment in fertility — it was an investment in our marriage, our peace, and our emotional health. The shifts I made rippled through our entire relationship. And honestly, that’s something no clinic or treatment ever gave us.”
-Lynsey, FMBM client
This is how Fertility Mind-Body Mastery changes everything:
BEFORE
❌ You’ve never felt more out of control. Like, there’s absolutely nothing in the world that will make you feel better, besides getting pregnant.
❌ You feel isolated and alone because 1. You have no one to talk to about the journey, even though you think about it all the time. 2. Every pregnancy announcement on Insta makes you feel like you’ve been punched in the stomach.
❌ You’re so pissed at your body. Why isn’t it doing what it’s meant to do? Wtf is wrong with it?
❌ You’re busy taking care of your partner, your career, the home, and the cooking - that the responsibility you feel to get pregnant makes you feel like a real-life pressure cooker.
❌ You keep replaying the past in your head. You say to yourself, “It hasn’t happened so far - why would it happen now?”
❌ Every doctor’s appointment leaves you feeling like a test subject who barely has enough time to ask her doctor the right questions to ease the angst.
❌ You feel so many different pent-up emotions but choose to sweep’em under the rug, in fear that if you let them out, they’ll never leave.
❌ You keep doubting yourself with thoughts like… will it ever happen for me? Am I even meant to be a mom?
AFTER
✅ You feel like you have a healthy sense of control of your fertility journey. Your mind is no longer overtaken by things like comparison and time.
✅ Finally, you’ve found a program that truly gets it—and a step-by-step system that helps you believe a healthy baby is possible for you, even when doubt tries to sneak in.
✅ You have a new found trust and appreciation for your body. Now that you’ve learned how to speak to your body and how your body speaks to you, you’re a team and will create this baby together.
✅You’ve learned how to ask for help. So after dinner, your partner does the dishes and puts away the laundry -- which leaves time for a great book and a relaxing bath to sooth your soul before a great night’s sleep.
✅ You’ve let go of the past. Best of all, you’ve forgiven it. And feel ready to welcome in a brand new, baby-filled future.
✅ You leave your doctor’s appointment feeling confident and excited. You’ve asked the right questions and insisted for clear and concise answers to put your mind and body at ease about the future.
✅ You’ve learned a healthy way to process and express your emotions. Therefore, your body has never felt lighter, your mind has never been more at peace and you’ve never felt more confident, excited and hopeful to be a mama.
Can you feel the difference?
Watch the stories of real TTC women who went from: Control to Surrender. Fear to Trust. And discovered that peace was never in the “how,” but in finally letting go.
“I’ve always been a bit of a control freak — the kind of person who thinks if I want it done right, I have to do it myself. But inside this program, I realized that real peace doesn’t come from control — it comes from surrender. Actually feeling the effects of letting go was one of the most incredible, freeing experiences of my life.”
-Ingrid, FMBM client
“Going through IVF while inside Fertility Mind-Body Mastery completely changed everything for me. What could’ve been the most stressful, draining experience became a time of deep trust, magic, and growth. I actually look back on that chapter with gratitude — because it taught me that this journey can feel beautiful, empowering, and full of peace.”
-Juanita, FMBM client
The Power of the Fertility Framework:
“The fertility journey felt scary because I wasn’t sure if I would ever be able to have a baby or not, and life felt too busy.
Well, I definitely made progress on my fertility journey because I am pregnant!
But more than that, I became more comfortable with uncertainty, receiving, and surrender, so that I’m able to enjoy the pregnancy more despite the times when I feel nervous. I also feel more at peace with the rest of my life. I learned to navigate my perfectionism and anxiety and start developing my worthiness from inside rather than by constantly trying to compete and prove myself.
I can honestly say this was one of the most life-changing things I’ve ever done. It helped me with so many aspects of my life, not just my fertility. I am leaving the program pregnant (and I do believe the program helped me get here), but I was already happier and more at peace in my life even before the pregnancy happened.”
— Tammy P.
“I had spent more than a year compulsively researching and trying everything on earth to “make it happen”, until my body suddenly begged me to stop. I somehow felt there was more to what was happening to me, I stopped asking “why” and started to wonder “what for”..?
I joined the program right when I felt ready to soak it in. It cracked my heart wide open and nothing but love, growth and absolute self-compassion came out of it.
We had decided we would try our first round of IVF this October and were waiting for my period to come so that I could start with the treatment, but for the first time ever… it didn’t show up.
I’m now 6 weeks pregnant.
I cannot find the words to thank you Spenser Brassard for shining the light and providing the most amazing soundtrack for my journey. The truth is, despite the ups and downs, I fell in love with this process way before I saw my two pink lines.”
— Bea E.
“When I found Spenser, I had just miscarried at 8 weeks after an IIVF transfer. It was such an unbelievably difficult time. I’m an OBGYN physician in my 40’s and Spenser’s coaching was life-changing. She is amazing at what she does and it took a lot of energy and time to get out of my medical mindset.
I can’t say enough about how much her sessions and coaching have been life-changing not just on this fertility journey, but in life in general.
I write this on the eve of my induction day at 38 weeks pregnant.
I have every risk factor for several complications in pregnancy and I have not developed one. I am still amazed at how the universe is working with me.
Mamas, if you’re thinking about joining Spenser’s program, I can’t recommend it enough. Thank you Spenser for the special work you do.”
— Cindy A.
Board Certified OBGYN Physician in New Jersey
“I was obsessed with finding out what was wrong with me. I was convinced that it was my fault we weren’t pregnant, and I lived with so much guilt and shame. My journey was really painful, constant dissapointment an loss with no explanation. I finally joined when I realized what I was doing wasn’t working, I wanted another way and I needed help.
I made so much progress with perfectionism and restriction. I healed my relationship with myself, God, and my husband. I have so many tools now to be an amazing Mom and I have so much more confidence in myself and my intuition. I am able to listen to my body on a much deeper level and have such an appreciation for it instead of hate blame and shame.
This program is such a worthwhile investment for your whole life.
If Spenser’s Podcast resonates with you, it is right for you. Imagine how much money you spend on fertility. This will not only improve your fertility (I am proof) but it will improve your happiness and well being. ”
— Laura M.
